I often go hiking early on Sunday mornings at a local trail that is a steep mile to the top. You can see the mountains and all the surrounding cities with such a beautiful perspective from up there. Â I enjoy the scenery and the exercise, but the quiet time to think and reflect are priceless to me.
Today, as I was walking down the mountain I encountered something I’ve never seen in my life. Â There was a man wearing what looked to be rock climbing gear with a large chain secured to it, dragging a big tire up the hill. Â I wish I would have had a camera, since many of you reading this might be thinking I had too much egg nog or I’m simply delusional from all the holiday frenzy. Â I promise you, he passed me within two feet. Â I said, “Good Morning” to him, but he didn’t reply. Â Maybe he couldn’t hear me over the loud sound of that tire dragging. Then I thought, “Wow, he must be on an incredible exercise mission like no other!” Â As I continued walking though, I kept thinking about it. I started contemplating all the things in my life that I have dragged around like a big tire chained to my body…old hurts, fears, worries, doubts, insecurities, work issues, relationship issues, and more.
How often do all of us drag around these kinds of fears and thoughts with us? Â What purpose do they serve? Â What gain do we possibly get from this? How much positivity and encouragement from others do we miss because the sound of our dragging tire is so loud that we can’t hear them? How many opportunities do we miss because we don’t react quick enough because of our heavy chains? How much more could we accomplish without the weight of these burdens bogging us down? How much happiness and joy remain out of our reach due to these restrictions pulling us backwards?
As 2011 approaches, let’s all resolve to leave our past in the past. Â We cannot change anything about yesterday, last month, last year, last whenever, anyway. Â All we have control of are our thoughts and actions today, this very moment. Let’s all resolve to heighten our awareness of each moment as a once in a lifetime gift. Â If you really think about it, every day truly is a once in a lifetime experience. Â How will we think differently, act differently, feel differently if we let go of those heavy chains and dragging tires and open our minds and hearts to the incredible opportunities and blessings that are all around us?
So, to the man with the tire chained to his body, I say, “Thank you”. Â Thank you for showing me what I look like when I drag my invisible tire of pain around. Â Thank you for reminding me to cut my chains and let my fears and doubts go. Â It’s a new year for new thoughts and actions, won’t you join me in releasing what we’re dragging behind us?
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