I received an email recently from author, Ross Anthony, who I met several months ago at a local book signing. Â In it, he mentioned that a particular incident happened to him and he described his reaction and the subsequent events as his “Pop Quiz” for the day. Â I have been thinking about this since that day and have been wondering how I score on the daily pop quizzes that come up in my life.
As I remember back to my school days, pop quizzes usually entailed a couple of scenarios. Â One…I was completely unprepared. I hadn’t done my homework or studied, and the quiz was a shock and an instant cause for feelings of stress and panic. Â Two…I was prepared. Â I was up to date on the class assignments and reading and I felt equipped to get through the test although I hadn’t expected to have the quiz. Â My stress level was neutral and I felt confident that I would do okay on the test for the most part.
Does anyone ever expect to have a pop quiz? What is the purpose of a pop quiz anyway? Â Is it a test of our readiness, our ability to think on our feet or a test of our self-management skills beyond daily schedules, outlines and structure? Â Or is it a consequence for “students” who lack self-discipline? Â Could it be a reminder that if you stay ready, you don’t have to get ready? Â Perhaps it’s a test of our listening and focus skills and how we implement these tools in daily life. Â Or is it a quick check on our current knowledge and understanding? Â Or maybe it is simply an opportunity to use a sudden event or “test” as a point of observation on where we are at in that moment and how we can learn, grow and evolve both personally and professionally.
I’ve been reviewing the pop quizzes that have happened to me over the past few days, and I think I have discovered areas where I need to learn and prepare more or get more organized to keep my fears and stressors in check.  Fortunately, I have had some “tests” or  experiences that I felt really good about too.  My confidence was able to shine as I handled these pop quizzes and challenges with grace, poise and inner strength.
How about you? Â How did you score on your Pop Quiz today?
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