The New MorningCoach.com Community

The MorningCoach.com team is proud to unveil the new community feature. We have put together an online community that will connect MorningCoach.com members via our in house social network program. Connect with other like minded MorningCoach.com members who share the same passion and enthusiasm for life. As a result this will develop into what will be the most supportive, and prosperous network on the net.

The community will only be accessible to our MorningCoach.com members. This wonderful benefit is included at no additional cost towards monthly membership fees.

Features:MorningCoach.com Community

- Live Chat
- Personal Profiles
- Discussion Chat Rooms
- Personal Blog
- Much More…

These features will promote the growth of a community unlike any other. A place where positive people can come together and support each other as they travel on their journey towards living life as it’s meant to be…to it’s maximum potential.

It’s time to say no more to mediocrity and yes to prosperity, abundance, and positivity.

The Community will be officially launching on:
Monday 10/31/11 4PM EST

Instructions:
1. Click on the community tab at the top of your morningcoach.com accout profile (Available 10/31/11 @ 4pm)
2. Create a display name for your profile
3. Fill out your profile information
4. Voila you will be ready to connect with MorningCoach.com members all arcoss the world!

If you have any issues or concerns please feel free to contact us info@morningcoach.com.

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What Are Your Personal Boundaries?

iStock_000014567216XSmall[1]I watched an interview quite sometime ago with Oprah and actor Will Smith. He shared his insight about dealing with negative people. He asks this profoundly important question to himself on a frequent basis: “Is there someone in your life who is not contributing to your life and not helping you move forward?” If your answer to this question is a resounding: Yes! Then: “Why do you insist on allowing them to remain in your life?”  A big A-ha moment for me! There must be some payoff for you if you continue allowing these negative influences in your life.  When you know better you do better.  If you want to change your life you have to also change the folks you chose to surround yourself with.  Here are a few strategies that I have learned over the years to help me weed out the negative nellies in my life.

Love yourself.  When you value and love yourself those loving and thoughtful people will come into your life. They are a direct reflection of how you see yourself.  Be your own person and don’t allow others to define you.  These positive people have your interests at heart and celebrate you with the world.  There is no animosity and jealousy; just love and acceptance for the unique person you are.  The people in my personal and professional life add to my life and that is a wonderful feeling.

Set boundaries.  We are the masters of our own life.  Learn to set boundaries with those negative people.  I grew up allowing people to take advantage of me, step all over me and treat me badly.  It started in my teenage years and eventually I had low self-worth and gave away my power.  I am proud of the woman I have become and learned a valuable life lesson from this negative part of my life. I do not tolerate this behavior.  I love and value myself now to not allow anyone to cross that line. What is your personal boundary?  

Live with gratitude.  You do make a positive difference in someone’s life.  Believe in yourself.  When you’re not in a good mood STOP and get back to your positive mindset and look with gratitude around you and see what an incredible life you have.  Living with gratitude and coming from a loving heart space attracts loving positive people into your life. 

Practice daily positive personal development.   Work 30 minutes every day on positive personal development.  Read inspirational books, watch positive videos and listen to pod casts.  This will change your life. 

All of us in this world deserve a magnificent life.  We all at different times in our life have relationship issues and difficult situations to deal with.  Different ideas and different perceptions; a lesson I take away is I’d rather be happy then right.   Understand that you alone can transform your thought process, so get out there and put a smile on your face and celebrate another day living with a positive mental attitude.  Create your own loving, kind and thoughtful tribe.  I’ve come along way and read these words recently and try to live by them:  “You should always expect the things that you accept”.   In other words, if you accept negative nellies in your life, then always expect this negative attitude and behavior.   Change the outcome and change your life;  accept positive people and expect support and love in return.

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How Will You Arrive?

Living in Ohio I have learned that at this time of year I truly appreciate days like today.  As I set out on what could be one of my last bike rides without cold weather gear, I was completely focused on enjoying the experience.  As I was thoroughly enjoying the sun, sights, smells, and strong autumnal energy, I was shifted back into reality by the familiar sound of a vehicle.   Not a car or an even more common 4×4 truck, but an equally familiar tractor.  As my awareness increased, I realized it was behind me and gaining ground.  I regularly need to navigate farm vehicles in my SUV, but this was a new experience.  As I increased my speed to ensure it stayed behind me, I momentarily thought of my childhood experiences on our farm and the how slow the tractors were.  But this was today, and 30 years of tractor technology was quickly gaining on me.D1759 Orange Tractor Grill and Lights

I would like to say the stop sign at the approaching intersection bailed me out, but the truth is I was passed, by the tractor, as I was moving at about 22 mph while going uphill.

As I turned at the intersection, ironically behind another tractor, the first non-farm implement thought in my head was actor Will Smith’s quote:

“I’m not afraid to die on a treadmill. I will not be outworked. I will run. Period. You may have more talent than me, you might be smarter than me, you might be sexier and all those things, but if we get on the treadmill, then you are going to get off first or I am going to die. It’s that simple.”

As you reflect on the quote, I would like you to think about your life, and what mode of transportation you are using.  If you are searching for your purpose or passion, or have goals and aspirations you are moving towards, an important question to consider is, “How am I getting there?”  In this case the “how” is about the effort, pace, determination, and commitment.

Have you started out walking, did you move to a jog, are you thinking about how fast you will run as your vision becomes clear?

Green LamboBut is that good enough for you?  My 11-year old daughter frequently reminds me that when she turns 16, a car like her brothers ’08 Civic is not going to work for her, she absolutely must have a lime green Lamborghini.

Have you thought about what it will look like when you arrive at your, purpose, dream, or goal?

Will you walk or jog up completely intact, barely out of breath, much later than you had planned, barely ahead of the tractor?

Or, will you arrive at your ultimate purpose, dream of dreams, and life-long passion, at the perfect time,…crashing in, with a lime green streak, pedal to the metal, engine racing, tireless rims sparking, and doors blown off?

“Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming — WOW– What a Ride!” ~Unknown

Facebook 1bbMCACBill Beard is a MCAC Credentialed Personal Development Coach and Consultant with over 25 years of experience in business operations.  He has taken his business experiences and his natural ability to form and strengthen interpersonal relationships with practicality and compassion, and melded them into his independent practice, Infinite Purpose Coaching and Consulting.  Through empowered coaching and refined communication, Bill guides his clients toward finding the clarity and focus they need to take positive charge of their business and personal endeavors.

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What’s Your Mission?

mission st and accomplishment blvdAs I sit here writing my fiftieth blog for Morning Coach, I am grateful and amazed how far I’ve grown spiritually, emotionally and creatively these last few years.  It’s taken a lot of tenacity, love and belief to take the risks to pursue my dream.  I had a good paying government job and left to start my own business as a Personal Development Coach.  I asked myself this fundamentally important question: “How does what I’m doing right now making me feel?”  I was working in an environment that wasn’t congruent with my values or what my heart was truly telling me.  I had to redefine my values, goals and write a new personal mission statement which helped me find my true calling.  So how do we do that?

First step – What are my Values?

Your personal values are your spirit or core beliefs and these values play a definitive role in your decision making process and in all facets of life.  Examples of values are: love, family, personal growth, integrity, benevolence and creativity.  Before making a decision, review your values to confirm this decision is consistent and it supports your mission statement.

Second step – What are my Goals?

A goal is a personal plan or strategy that you are aspiring to achieve within a certain timeframe.  Whether you want to lose 10 pounds in the next six months, start a new business or learn a new language in the next year, make sure that they are attainable and corresponds with your values and mission statement.  I like to review my goals once a month as with all things change happens.  It helps to motivate me, gives me clarity with an open mind to inspire me to keep on moving forward to achieve my goals and be successful.

Finally -What is my Mission Statement?

A personal mission statement has the same principles as a business mission statement; the subtle difference is a personal mission statement is intended to give you clarity to define what is most important in your life.  So I ask you to consider again these two questions: What is your true calling or what do you really want in life?  In Stephen Covey’s book First Things First, the author succinctly defines a mission statement to be: “connecting with your own unique purpose and the profound satisfaction that comes from fulfilling it”.   Once you have your values and goals identified then you can write a clear and simple mission statement.   

I am currently in a wonderful space in my life.  I am in a healthy loving relationship and living my dream.  I continue to create “free” time to play, learn and work to manifest my dreams of prosperity in health, wealth and spirit.  My commitment to the universe is to pay it forward.   My mission is to assist women of the world define and achieve their goals to manifest great health, happiness and prosperity. What is your mission?

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Become Purpose Driven

iStock_000016880083XSmallFinding our life purpose is not really about finding our dream job or career.  It is much greater than that.  It is really more of a way of connecting with God and his love.  Rick Warren, author of The Purpose Driven Life, reminds us of the passage from 1 Corinthians 13:3 that states “No matter what I say, what I believe, and what I do, I’m bankrupt without love.”  It is learning to include love in whatever relationship, job or career we choose that leads us to discover our life-purpose. This is not a check off the “to-do list” type of love.  This is rather more about a deep connection to God since it is said by all faiths around the world that “God is love.”

When you show up with love as your intention, the true purpose or reason for being in that job, with that person, or in that situation is revealed and manifested.  This is getting deep I know, and maybe I lost a few of you already, but….when we show up with love, we show up with God, since he is love.  God now is in that job, in that relationship, in that situation, or whatever it might be.  That is when we discover that  what we thought was impossible becomes possible, and where we discover a serendipitous flow that feels extraordinary.  That is what true life purpose is all about. It is in connecting with this type of love, where we discover our purpose.

Practically speaking, if you are working in a job that you don’t love or even show up representing love in any shape or size, how do you expect to achieve abundance or true success there?  We just saw in the passage above that we are bankrupt without love.  Without love as our purpose, our lives are bankrupt.

I invite you to think about these things today.  How do you show up at work or in relationships? Do you feel bankrupt in life? What is your life-purpose? Contact a coach if you would like to learn more about discovering your purpose in life.

Traci Vincent

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