New Ideas Are Everywhere

ideaOliver Wendell Holmes said: ” Man’s (or woman’s I added) mind, once stretched by a new idea, never regains its original dimensions.”  Historically, when a new idea, opportunity, or adventure pops up, quite often my mind takes half a look and immediately says:”Absolutely not!!!  No way!!  That is so not me.”  But if I sit with the idea just a wee bit, that little voice deep inside says:  “Hey there, not so fast.  Why not?? Let’s try this one, please?”

As I am sitting here at the computer, my mind races back to a few years ago.  I was with an awesome group of people in Zimbabwe.  We had just completed two medical clinics and were heading for some R&R at Victoria Falls.  My friend Cindi, said  the Zambezi has the best white water rafting in the world.   Lets go whitewater rafting.  I was dog tired but she spent the next hour telling me all about it.  The Zambezi River is filled with hungry crocodiles and vicious hippopotamuses?  Their rapids start out with gradel 5!  Me, the grandmother, I thought?  No way!  But I heard that little voice say:  “Why not?  When will you get this opportunity again?  Let’s do it!”

So I signed up.  Little did I know what this was going to entail.  When we arrived at the River I was presented with another choice.  I could ride on the raft that someone else paddled or I could go hard core and paddle myself with my co-adventurers, the fighter pilot and construction workers in the group.  I chose the whole deal. I wanted the full ride.

Who knew that rescuing someone floating down the river toward the rocks (I know it sounds heroic) would leave me under the raft in the middle of the Zambezi.  When I realized where I was I was diligently praying a crocodile would get me instead of a hippo.  As fate would have it, G-D was gracious, neither chose to pluck me from the teaming water.

It was an exhausting exhilarating day. I entertained a new idea and had an amazing life changing experience.  Even the exhausting hike up the gorge was enough to change my mind.  I decided then and there to change my idea of the little old grandmother.  I even have the t-shirt and the video.  Come on over and I’ll let you watch it.

New ideas are everywhere.  Open up and receive them.  I am not proposing you become fool-hearty, but rather, be more childlike.  Rediscover your sense of wonder and adventure.  Tune in your receiver!

In the frameNew ideas are everywhere but we must:

First and foremost be open to receive

Be on the look out for them

Receive them

Open them like gifts

Some will fit and others

Simply release from your hand like falling leaves.

But entertain them

open them up and try them on

Give the idea and yourself the chance.

Trust your intuition  — Especially when it does not look like, smell like, taste like, sound like or   feel like anything you might consider.

Always,

Lori

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Laughter

laughter I love my morning ritual.  It is such an amazing calm way to start the day.  I awaken early, grab a cup of tea, settle back in bed with my journal, my books, and slowly start the day.  Although my routine was switched a bit,  last week was no different.  I was blessed to spend the week with my two little grandchildren. My routine completed, the morning was going great. From out of nowhere, the normally sweet, cooperative, 5 year old decided he not only did not want to get dressed, but he was NOT getting dressed for school.  For a moment I found myself at a loss.  I mean really!  I was the adult here and he had to go to school.  A confrontation was brewing that could sour the entire day.  But, I stopped, took a deep sensual, and laughed.  I laughed at me and the sudden clash of wills. I mused: What was the worst thing that could happen? He could miss school or go to school in his pajamas. Laughter is contagious!  Soon he was laughing too.  The crisis defused and soon he was dressed and singing happily on our way to school.

Historically, I tend to take myself way too seriously.  How often I have missed seeing the humor of my own reactions to situations.  I have missed the huge release of child-like giggles and deep laughter.   I have chosen another path.  I choose new lenses.  Now I see so much of what I do as funny.  I release my need to be perfect and simply enjoy the ride.   Like Audrey Hepburn said: ” I love people who make me laugh. I honestly think it’s the thing I like most, to laugh. It cures a multitude of ills. It’s probably the most important thing in a person.” My family and friends make me laugh, but now, I make me laugh!

How about you?

Next time you find yourself in a contest of wills or a disagreement.

Take a quick glance in the mirror.

Notice your expression.

Take a deep breath and let go.

Allow laughter to rise!

We are never too old or young to try a new path!!

Always,

Lori Elgin

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Toys: How to Have Joy

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For those of you who may not know, I am a multiple credentialed nurse practitioner currently practicing high-risk pediatrics for our local hospital.  Life can take a fast dramatic, life altering turn at any moment.  I am constantly reminded of the very fragility of life and the deep gift of each day.  I never know what will happen when I walk through the door or when the phone rings.   Here at the hospital, there is no place happier on the planet when things go well and there are few sadder when they do not.  For the first eighteen years of practice, I did not know how to handle the stress.  I simply carried it in my body. I was SO serious, the perfect example of how not to do it!

I know, all too well, we are all here on this planet for only so many minutes, hours, days, months, and sometimes years.  I like the priest in the movie Rudy have learned two things from working here: 1. There is a God and 2. I am not Him. When you work with children, you learn they play even in the midst of unthinkable pain.  They smile, laugh, and joke.  They can make a toy and game of almost anything.  After years of watching, I have learned to relax and trust.  I am in no way cavalier.  I practice expert, evidence based, medicine and include the parents in my decisions. I have contagious quiet joy with me wherever I go.

If you were to follow me around all day you would find me talking happily to my patients, their siblings, and parents.  I am gentle and cheerful with the staff.  Should you happen into my office you might be surprised to see amidst the text books and photos,  a group of toys, strategically placed up on the bookshelf at eye level so I can see them. There is a can of purple silly putty, an orange bouncy ball, a yellow rubber duck, a slinky, and white bunny finger puppet. There are also a few rocks I have collected while out on walks to clear my brain and a sea shell or two. Front and center you will see half or a board I broke last year with JB, Billy Beck III and my morning coach compadres. If you turn on my ipad you will find all the medical apps and of course games and puzzles.  These are my reminders. You do not quit playing because you get old, you get old because you quit playing.

I know how to play and love it.  Do you?  Do you take yourself or your life too seriously?   Take it from one who did for years and paid a high cost. It just “ain’t” worth it! Look at me, the grandmother of ten!

So how did I do it?

I became more like my patients

I learned to be child-like

I made peace with God and myself

I realized (gasp) I am not perfect (never will be)

I rediscovered I love toys

I love to play

I love to turn the music up really loud and dance and sing

Now it is your turn:

Lighten up!

So buy some toys!

Turn up those cheesy old songs that make you laugh

Get outside even if you need foul weather gear like we do.

Play!!!

This is the only shot we get at this life.

Have some fun.

Find it in the least likely of places!


IMG_0105One last thing should you find a motorcycle jut sitting there with a cute French Air Force Officer near by in Paris, ask him if you could hop on!  Need any hints?  Contact me!

Grace and peace,

Lori

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Learning How to Establish My Boundaries

I woke up this morning just as the early morning sun began to peak its way through the clouds, shattering the darkness.  My heart swelled with gratitude as I breathed a prayer of gratitude for this new day.  I wandered to get a cuppa tea to start my morning routine. I paused to medicate Charlie, the elderly Persian cat and feed Zev, the wonder Scottie.  My tasks complete, I took my steaming mug of mint tea and settled into my space for my quiet time.  I love this time of day.  I set my intentions for the day and drop in to discover what I require to do, be, and enjoy to be truly fulfilled at the end of the day.
This morning, I am so grateful for my sacred circle. Motivational speaker Jim Rohn said: ’You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.’ JB describes the sacred circle as these five or six people we are closest to.  This is true and  the people in my inner sanctum are vital for me to live my truth and fulfill my mission here on the planet.But, I would like to humbly offer you my wider more personal  definition of my sacred circle.
My sacred circle is my own personal boundaries.  I visualize my sacred circle as a pure gold braid interwoven with a cord of deep crimson.  The gold because it is precious and the cord of crimson represents the pure grace that touches my life.  It encircles me about three feet in every direction.  I did not learn to establish healthy boundaries growing up or in my younger days.  It was not until my coach and mentor, Tara Marino suggested I read the book Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No that I realized my personal boundaries resembled either a piece of sagging worn out elastic or barbed wire.  I learned how to establish healthy boundaries.  I say who and what comes into my sacred space.  I speak my truth and do not feel the need to justify my answers.  My yes is yes and my no is no.  I protect my space and it is holy ground.
How do you define your sacred circle??  I would love to hear
All the best to you,
Lori

Spiritual SunriseI woke up this morning just as the early morning sun began to peak its way through the clouds, shattering the darkness.  My heart swelled with gratitude as I breathed a prayer of gratitude for this new day.  I wandered to get a cuppa tea to start my morning routine. I paused to medicate Charlie, the elderly Persian cat and feed Zev, the wonder Scottie.  My tasks complete, I took my steaming mug of mint tea and settled into my space for my quiet time.  I love this time of day.  I set my intentions for the day and drop in to discover what I require to do, be, and enjoy to be truly fulfilled at the end of the day.

This morning, I am so grateful for my sacred circle. Motivational speaker Jim Rohn said: ’You are the average ofThe Importance of Close Friends the five people you spend the most time with.’ JB describes the sacred circle as these five or six people we are closest to.  This is true and  the people in my inner sanctum are vital for me to live my truth and fulfill my mission here on the planet.But, I would like to humbly offer you my wider more personal  definition of my sacred circle.

My sacred circle is my own personal boundaries.  I visualize my sacred circle as a pure gold braid interwoven with a cord of deep crimson.  The gold because it is precious and the cord of crimson represents the pure grace that touches my life.  It encircles me about three feet in every direction.  I did not learn to establish healthy boundaries growing up or in my younger days.  It was not until my coach and mentor, Tara Marino suggested I read the book Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No that I realized my personal boundaries resembled either a piece of sagging worn out elastic or barbed wire.  I learned how to establish healthy boundaries.  I say who and what comes into my sacred space.  I speak my truth and do not feel the need to justify my answers.  My yes is yes and my no is no.  I protect my space and it is holy ground.

How do you define your sacred circle??  I would love to hear

All the best to you,

Lori

Lori is a Morning coach credential life coach and board certified nurse practitioner health and wellness coach. You may follow her on her website: http://LoriElgin.com or

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Choose to Embrace the Day with Wonder

289116621This morning I woke up in a funk. This is most unusual for me.  I wondered if it might have been caused by the change in the season.  The calendar says we are heading into fall, but here in the Pacific Northwest summer just barely arrived.  Yesterday, I turned on the air conditioner.  No, I did not think it was the change in seasons.


As I made my cup of hot water, lemon, and cayenne pepper, I stretched and meandered about the kitchen.  I fed Zev, the wonder Scottie and Charlie, our elderly, fragile Persian cat. I wondered if it was Charlie’s illness.  No, that did not resonate not either.


DSC02410As I sat for my early morning meditation, my mind was busier than usual. I felt like it was Washington National Airport.  Thoughts were arriving and departing like jumbo jets.  With some deep sensual breaths, I settled in and enjoyed the stillness.  Thirty minutes passed like the a vapor.  The spirit of heaviness disappeared.  When I opened my eyes, the sun was beginning to peak through the shutters.


289126061I realized this is a new day.  I am brand new.  Today is a gift. I chose to reach out and embrace it. I am so grateful for the opportunity to enjoy this day. No matter how feel when we wake up, we have the choice! We can choose to embrace the day as a precious irreplaceable gift. How do you choose to start and live your day?

Lori


Lori Elgin is a nurse practitioner wellness and transformational life coach. She is completing her Morning Coach Professional Coach credentialing.  She lives it the beautiful Pacific NW.

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