
For those of you who may not know, I am a multiple credentialed nurse practitioner currently practicing high-risk pediatrics for our local hospital. Life can take a fast dramatic, life altering turn at any moment. I am constantly reminded of the very fragility of life and the deep gift of each day. I never know what will happen when I walk through the door or when the phone rings.  Here at the hospital, there is no place happier on the planet when things go well and there are few sadder when they do not. For the first eighteen years of practice, I did not know how to handle the stress. I simply carried it in my body. I was SO serious, the perfect example of how not to do it!
I know, all too well, we are all here on this planet for only so many minutes, hours, days, months, and sometimes years. I like the priest in the movie Rudy have learned two things from working here: 1. There is a God and 2. I am not Him. When you work with children, you learn they play even in the midst of unthinkable pain. They smile, laugh, and joke. They can make a toy and game of almost anything. After years of watching, I have learned to relax and trust. I am in no way cavalier. I practice expert, evidence based, medicine and include the parents in my decisions. I have contagious quiet joy with me wherever I go.
If you were to follow me around all day you would find me talking happily to my patients, their siblings, and parents. I am gentle and cheerful with the staff. Should you happen into my office you might be surprised to see amidst the text books and photos, a group of toys, strategically placed up on the bookshelf at eye level so I can see them. There is a can of purple silly putty, an orange bouncy ball, a yellow rubber duck, a slinky, and white bunny finger puppet. There are also a few rocks I have collected while out on walks to clear my brain and a sea shell or two. Front and center you will see half or a board I broke last year with JB, Billy Beck III and my morning coach compadres. If you turn on my ipad you will find all the medical apps and of course games and puzzles. These are my reminders. You do not quit playing because you get old, you get old because you quit playing.
I know how to play and love it. Do you? Do you take yourself or your life too seriously?  Take it from one who did for years and paid a high cost. It just “ain’t” worth it! Look at me, the grandmother of ten!
So how did I do it?
I became more like my patients
I learned to be child-like
I made peace with God and myself
I realized (gasp) I am not perfect (never will be)
I rediscovered I love toys
I love to play
I love to turn the music up really loud and dance and sing
Now it is your turn:
Lighten up!
So buy some toys!
Turn up those cheesy old songs that make you laugh
Get outside even if you need foul weather gear like we do.
Play!!!
This is the only shot we get at this life.
Have some fun.
Find it in the least likely of places!
One last thing should you find a motorcycle jut sitting there with a cute French Air Force Officer near by in Paris, ask him if you could hop on! Need any hints? Contact me!
Grace and peace,
Lori
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Tomorrow, November 11th, 2011 is Remembrance Day in Canada, Common Wealth and Veteran’s Day in the United States.  The armistice came into effect at the 1100am hour, of the 11th month, on the 11th day of the year 1918 to end World War I. Lieutenant Colonel John McCrae of Guelph, Ontario was posted as a medical officer and served at Boulogne No 3 General Hospital as officer in charge of medicine and stayed in this position until his death of pneumonia, on 28 January, 1918. While serving as a combat doctor he wrote this most notable World War I poem. As a child I learned it in school and it is still read and studied by our children today -In Flanders Fields:
