No Pain, No Gain

man with back painAs a physical therapist for well over 20 years, I have treated thousands of people who come into the office in physical pain. Some have recently begun to have pain and that’s why they went to the doctor in the first place and others have been in pain for many months or many years and have been to many doctors seeking a solution to their pain. It has been fascinating to observe how people handle pain, understand pain, process pain and view it in the overall scope of their life. At least once a day I hear a patient say, “No pain, no gain.”  It’s interesting to see how common that viewpoint is in our society. But there are different types of pain and reasons for pain that shouldn’t be lumped into a single simple saying.

Without getting too technical and deep into physiology here, pain is generally a protective signal sent from a nerve to the brain warning it that there is a situation of injury, inflammation or damage occurring in a particular muscle or tissue. Typically, the brain responds by telling the muscles to contract to pull away and protect or to shut off to avoid further damage or injury.

Interestingly enough, could emotional pain be viewed in a similar way? Don’t we often contract and pull away or just shut down when we suffer from emotional pain? Something else I have observed over the past 25 years working with people in pain is the connection between physical pain and emotional pain and the immense power of the mind. Have you ever been upset with your spouse or co-worker and ended up with a stiff neck, headache or upset stomach? Would you say that is emotional pain showing itself as physical pain? Have you ever been worried over finances or bills and somehow woke up with back pain? Did you wonder what the reason was for the back pain or did you think you simply slept “wrong”? In our society, physical pain is the only pain that is acceptable to discuss openly, and emotional pain is somehow viewed as a weakness and something to be hidden and covered up.  Our bodies are nothing short of wonderful masterpieces and powerfully controlled by our mind. When we become more aware of what the mind is doing, we start to see why things sometimes manifest themselves in our bodies as pain.

Here are some basic tips to think about when you have pain:

1. Breathe. Take slow deep belly breaths.  Allow your belly to rise as you inhale.  This increases the amount of oxygen flowing into your tissues, adjusts your nervous system and calms your mind.

2.Observe. Take a look a the situation. Are you stressed or upset about something? Are you doing something you don’t want to do? Are you operating from a position of fear or avoidance? Are you doing something your body is not currently flexible or strong enough to endure?

3.Get the Facts. Obtain knowledge about your body, how it works and your condition. Ask questions! I can’t tell you how many people I treat who are reluctant to ask questions about their bodies.  If you understand, for example, how the shoulder joint works, you probably are going to have a better understanding of what to do and what not to do to avoid further injury or damage. Changing behaviors and movement patterns can completely change the mechanics of the situation and significantly impact your pain level.

4.Journal. Write down what type of pain you are feeling.  Is it burning, throbbing, stabbing, aching,etc? What type of activity have you been doing? Write down any stressors you have had at work, at school or at home. When you write things down you can begin to see patterns and this will be very useful in helping you and/or your healthcare practitioner to better understand what’s going on in your body.  It makes my job more challenging and difficult to be effective when I first treat a patient and for example they tell me nothing happened to cause their back pain and then 2 weeks later they  nonchalantly mention that they fell 4 months ago and fractured several ribs or that they got fired from their job and are suing their employer.

5.Take Action. Whether it’s adjusting your computer station, learning proper body mechanics, reviewing a new technique in your sport, opening up and communicating your feelings, speaking to a healthcare professional, your teacher, a coach, or your supervisor about your situation, take action to make a change.  Nothing will change until you do.

When you start to observe how your body speaks your mind, you begin to unlock the power of healing. Your mind put you where you are today and it will put you where are a going to be tomorrow. So next time you hear someone say, “No pain, no gain,” think about what you are willing to gain by looking at pain in a different way.

Traci Vincent

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Fasting After Feasting

iStock_000018710247XSmallIt’s a wrap…all the holiday parties reveling with sweets, alcohol and feast-like menus are done! If you are like me, you may have added a pound or two to your waistline or your body may be feeling sluggish and heavy from all the calorie intake that occurred. As we begin a new year, let’s re-think our perception of food and our addiction to over-indulging on a regular basis.

Food is a gift from God, yet most of us fail to realize that eating is actually a type of spiritual act or experience. Many of us live in a near continual state of satiety and this has created a false sense of contentment and indulgent habit patterns that spread into other parts of our lives. Because we don’t say no to foods we know are not healthy for us, this habit trickles into other areas of life where we don’t say no..be that at work or in relationships.  Our boundaries begin to blur and we end up in situations that don’t honor ourselves or our commitment to our goals and aspirations.

The act of fasting is not about punishing our bodies, but rather to set us free from our attachments. When your body is hungry, you begin to let go and discover new ways to connect with God or the universe, new levels of strength and fortitude that maybe you didn’t realize were inside you, and new insight toward old behaviors like anger, criticism/judgement, jealousy or other tempting bad habits.

Tips for Fasting:

  • Everyone is capable of fasting to some extent. If you are not capable of omitting all foods due to pregnancy, nursing, being elderly or being a young child, try restricting certain foods, perhaps meat or dairy. If food is not an option for you due to health issues, maybe fast from television, internet usage, or something that typically takes up time in your daily schedule.
  • Choose a meal, a day, or a week during the year and stick with it. Come up with a plan and execute it.  Stay positive and upbeat and avoid the tendency to grumble and draw attention to yourself and your sacrifice.
  • Stay focused. Stay humble and focus on what you are discovering inside your heart, your mind and your body.  This is your spiritual journey, not someone else’s.
  • Meditate and Serve more. When you are eating less, you will have more time to pray and meditate and also to serve others and impact their lives. You will have more energy to give out to the universe.
  • Explore juicing with vegetables. Recharge and heal your body with the powerful micro-nutrients found in vegetables.  Juicing is a great way to give your digestive tract a break , detox your body and still nourish your cells in an incredible way. An interesting documentary on this is the Joe Cross film: Fat,Sick, and Nearly Dead.

Fasting is a fight FOR your body, not against it. It is a powerful tool to re-balance your mind, your body and your spirit.  If one of your resolutions is to improve your health and wellness this year, I hope you will consider the benefits that implementing fasting into your life can have.

Traci Vincent

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3 Tips to Avoid Overeating During the Holiday

Every year people have issues with overeating during the holidays. Today I challenge you to beat that issue. I am going to give you three tips that will help you meet this challenge.

1. Make every meal a spiritual meal

I think this is the most important thing you can do not only during holidays, but also throughout the year. When you approach your meals with gratitude and reverence you start to look at what you eat differently. You truly have a new respect for your food.

It is critical to understand the old cliche, “we are what we eat”. It is a cliche because it is true. Through the holidays and onward when you sit down to eat give thanks to the plant or animal you are about to consume. It is their energy that they are giving you that sustains you.

2. Drink more water

Take time to drink more water. You may have heard this before. The question is. Are you doing it? Make sure you are drinking plenty of water through the holiday season it will keep you full and help control your appetite. It is also very healthy to keep your body cleansed.

If you drink alcohol during the holidays it is important to stay hydrated. One of the things that makes a hangover so bad is dehydration. If you drink more water it will help you in this area. If you do drink make sure you drink in moderation and watch the calorie intake from too many drinks. Those nice sugary drinks taste good but are also full of calories and sugar that packs a wallop the next morning in the form of a nasty hangover.

3. Don’t be too strict

You need to have fun. Don’t beat yourself up or put massive restrictions on yourself. Have fun during the holidays. A lot of times a very tough diet you get on for weight loss actually does the opposite. You do it for a few days and then you binge.

You know what to eat and you know when you are cheating. Focus on the basics of eating healthy smaller meals instead of large meals and it will help you to avoid overeating.

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Acupuncture My Next Personal Development and Health Experiment

Yesterday was my was my first trip to the my new Acupuncturists. I went to Yang’s Acupuncture & Herbal Center, Inc. The two Doctors that have the clinic there are Dr Yang Aiguao. PH.D.,AP. and Dr. An Xiao Ying, PhD., AP. Since this was my first ever trip to get needled, I was a little uneasy.

Personal Development Acupuncture ExperimentOnce a got to the center both Doctors where amazingly friendly and explained to me some of the traditional ideas of TCM (Traditional Chinese Medicine). They both have an amazing pedigree of study in China with TCM and I was immediately at ease.

My plan was and is to experiment on how Acupuncture can help my performance and just overall health. My only real issue I had going in was some left foot pain that I sustained a few weeks ago sparring. I kicked someone’s elbow just around my big toe. So, I told the doctor that is why I was there. To see how this stuff “works”.

He took my pulse and had me stick out my tongue. Something done in traditional TCM. He then discussed that I had a very strong heart and the I had some weakness in my kidneys. This would be from the massive amounts of training that I do. He also said stress is an issue with me.

I said, “cool, lets fix it!” We headed into the room. I got nervous as I had to strip down and lay on the table. I am just not a big fan of needles. I know it is mental, but needles and I just don’t work.

I laid down and he started with my head. I knew the needles where coming as I smelt the alcohol. SHHHH. Don’t tell anyone, but I had my eyes closed. It was really not that bad. He put four needles into my head in various locations. One right on the top of my nose. He then worked the rest of the way down my body with a few extra ones in my left foot.

He then said, “relax”. I must have laid there for about twenty minutes. I really felt relaxed by the traditional Chinese music.

He came back and took out the needles. I did not feel any pain at all which was awesome. He then put some herbs on my foot and told me to leave them on for three hours. That was it. I had made it through my first Acupuncture session.

Right after, I felt totally relaxed. So much so, when I got back to my home office, Luis asked me, “what did you do?” Pretty awesome feeling. My foot really did not hurt the rest of the day. Today a little of the pain came back but I did train real hard this morning.

I think it is going to be a good experiment. I am scheduled to go every week for a few months. I think it is going to at least help me get over my needle fear. It was weird to look down and see all those needles sticking out of you. I will keep you posted on how it goes.

Some tips that helped me:

  • Learn to relax. Just get into the experience.
  • Feel if the Doctor is someone you can relate to. Has your best interests at hand. I was happy to see the amount of study both of the Doctors at this clinic had. Made my decision easier.
  • Open your mind to new things. TCM (Traditional Chinese Medicine) has been around for centuries.
  • Have fun!

Looking forward to my meeting next week. I have more experiments in the works. Right now my personal team around me includes a Rolfer (type of intense massage) A Massage Therapist, a Professional Trainer and now an Acupuncturist. Everything to keep in the best shape possible and be proactive with my health instead of reactive.

I will break down each of these in the future so you know how I use them as part of the new health project here at MorningCoach.com

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